Conflict can leave us feeling stuck, unsure where to begin or whether change is even possible. In this episode, I introduce the journey ahead in Changing Normal—a three-part road map that…
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As I prepared to publish Changing Normal, I found myself reflecting on its cultural setting and wondering whether some might assume the stories aren’t meant for them. Many of these…
In this video, I share the personal and cross-cultural journey that led me to write Changing Normal. From long-term relationships to life in Chinese communities, this story sets the foundation for…
Happy new year! I’m starting an experiment in 2026 and would love to see if my short videos to “Journey with me through Changing Normal in 2026” help your relationships…
Aaron Lee at SOLA Network has written a wonderful book review of Changing Normal. The content here is taken from a condensed version of the review found at Threadsthesolanetwork: How...
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Play Video Pursuing Peace Together 一起追求和睦 (CESNA seminary training highlights) Over 100 people participated in the Pursuing Peace Together seminar at China Evangelical Seminary of North America (北美华神) on November...
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My May 3, 2024 article in Christianity Today: In 1997, I moved from America to China to teach English and study Mandarin. I ended up working there for 15 years....
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In this video trailer, you'll hear me give a brief intro to Changing Normal: Break Through Barriers to Pursuing Peace in Relationships. Share it with a friend who might need...
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At my Jan 14th book release party, my Dad prayed a moving prayer of blessing and dedication for 'Changing Normal: Break Through Barriers to Pursuing Peace in Relationships.' Thank you,...
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What is the "normal" that I refer to in 'Changing Normal: Break Through Barriers to Pursuing Peace in Relationships?' What do I mean by 'changing'? Who changes? Why? How does...
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