{"id":729,"date":"2024-01-08T21:55:41","date_gmt":"2024-01-08T21:55:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/jolenekinser.com\/?p=729"},"modified":"2024-03-05T23:16:41","modified_gmt":"2024-03-05T23:16:41","slug":"why-is-apologizing-so-hard","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jolenekinser.com\/zh_hk\/why-is-apologizing-so-hard\/","title":{"rendered":"Why is Apologizing so Hard?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"fws_69ea65ea28a39\"  data-column-margin=\"default\" data-midnight=\"dark\"  class=\"wpb_row vc_row-fluid vc_row\"  style=\"padding-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; \"><div class=\"row-bg-wrap\" data-bg-animation=\"none\" data-bg-animation-delay=\"\" data-bg-overlay=\"false\"><div class=\"inner-wrap row-bg-layer\" ><div class=\"row-bg viewport-desktop\"  style=\"\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"row_col_wrap_12 col span_12 dark left\">\n\t<div  class=\"vc_col-sm-12 wpb_column column_container vc_column_container col no-extra-padding inherit_tablet inherit_phone\"  data-padding-pos=\"all\" data-has-bg-color=\"false\" data-bg-color=\"\" data-bg-opacity=\"1\" data-animation=\"\" data-delay=\"0\" >\n\t\t<div class=\"vc_column-inner\" >\n\t\t\t<div class=\"wpb_wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\n\t<div class=\"wpb_video_widget wpb_content_element vc_clearfix   vc_video-aspect-ratio-169 vc_video-el-width-100 vc_video-align-left\" >\n\t\t<div class=\"wpb_wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\t<div class=\"wpb_video_wrapper\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Why is Apologizing so Hard?\" width=\"1080\" height=\"608\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/LGCZ6w0aXqs?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t<\/div>\n\n<div class=\"wpb_text_column wpb_content_element\" >\n\t<div class=\"wpb_wrapper\">\n\t\t<p><span class=\"yt-core-attributed-string--link-inherit-color\">What does your typical apology sound like? <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span class=\"yt-core-attributed-string--link-inherit-color\">The story I share here is taken from Chapter One, page 18 of my book, Changing Normal: Break Through Barriers to Pursuing Peace in Your Relationships. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span class=\"yt-core-attributed-string--link-inherit-color\">Check out Chapter Seven of my book for examples of relationally restorative conversations! <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span class=\"yt-core-attributed-string--link-inherit-color\">To purchase book: <\/span><span class=\"yt-core-attributed-string--link-inherit-color\"><a class=\"yt-core-attributed-string__link yt-core-attributed-string__link--display-type yt-core-attributed-string__link--call-to-action-color\" tabindex=\"0\" href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/dp\/1950058085\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/dp\/1950058085?&#8230;<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n\t<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wpb_text_column wpb_content_element\" >\n\t<div class=\"wpb_wrapper\">\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n\n\t\t\t<\/div> \n\t\t<\/div>\n\t<\/div> \n<\/div><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"What does your typical apology sound like? 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