Conflict can leave us feeling stuck, unsure where to begin or whether change is even possible. In this episode, I introduce the journey ahead in Changing Normal—a three-part road map that explores why conflict is so difficult, what lies beneath it, and how God can transform the way we respond. Through real stories and honest questions, we’ll discover that while not every conflict is resolved, God can still bring healing, strength, and hope.
Changing Normal Table of Contents
Introduction: A New Way Forward
PART I: Looking Back to Move Forward
Chapter 1: It’s Not Working
Chapter 2: Why We Feel Stuck
Chapter 3: Can We Live Differently?
PART II: The Complications
Chapter 4: Face Matters
Chapter 5: Status, Power, and Cultural Expectations
Chapter 6: Looking Out for Interests
Chapter 7: Apologies and Confession
PART III: What God Makes Possible
Chapter 8: Bearing Fruit
Chapter 9: Initiating Conversations
Chapter 10: Finding and Being a Helpful Conflict Companion
Chapter 11: Cultivating an Environment of Peace
Final Thoughts
Appendix A: Feelings Reference Guide
Appendix B: Universal Human Needs List
Appendix C: Conversation Space Ideas
Appendix D: Apologizing FAQs
Appendix E: Resources
Changing Normal is available on Amazon
https://www.amazon.com/dp/1950058085
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