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  2. <\/span>Those I interviewed, like Liu Haifeng, had learned the Seven A\u2019s of Biblical Confession (see below) found in Ken Sande\u2019s book,\u00a0The Peacemaker.<\/em>\u00a0This specific list was pulled from\u00a0RW360<\/em>, \u201cSeven A\u2019s of a Biblical Confession\u2014Get the Log Out of Your Eye,\u201d accessed December 17, 2021,\u00a0https:\/\/rw360.org\/seven-as-of-a-biblical-confession\/<\/a>.\n
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